Okay, buckle up, buttercups, because we’re diving into something that might just make the whole mom thing feel a little less overwhelming. Or at least give you something to think about besides the mountain of laundry staring you down from the corner. We’re talking tarot. Specifically, the High Priestess, and how she might bring balance to your messy, love-filled, off-the-rails mom life.
Quick pause: tarot isn’t crystal balls and fortune-telling. It is more like a tool for self-reflection, a way to tap into your own intuition. And the High Priestess? She is the queen of calm, the patron saint of “you already know the answer.” Basically, she is here to help you get through motherhood while keeping your space and your vibe more serene.
For context, another Major Arcana card, the World, represents completion and the sense of wholeness that often feels out of reach in the middle of daily chaos.
The Chaos and the Craving for Balance
Motherhood is a nonstop ride to crazy town, population: you and your tiny dictators. You are juggling work, meals, laundry, school drop-offs, and the never-ending sock hunt. Sometimes you just want to scream into a pillow and eat chocolate chips in the pantry.
I have been there. One minute you are bargaining with a toddler, the next you are on a Zoom call pretending you did not just step on a Lego. Burnout is real. Around 80% of moms admit to feeling overwhelmed at least once a week. You crave calm, but where do you find it?
That is where the High Priestess comes in. She is not about predicting the future. She is about inner wisdom, stillness, and remembering the voice you forget you have when you are knee-deep in chaos.
Tarot 101 For the Skeptical Mom
So what is tarot, really? It is a deck of symbolic cards, like a visual journal or mindfulness tool. People use it to check in with themselves, their gut, and those little whispers of truth.
The High Priestess is one of the Major Arcana cards. She represents intuition, feminine power, and calm. Even if you never touch a deck, she can be a symbol for creating a little mental space and breathing room.
Who Is the High Priestess?
Traditionally, she is shown sitting between two pillars for balance, holding a scroll that symbolizes wisdom, with water at her feet to represent emotions. She embodies patience, intuition, and stillness, the qualities that often get drowned out when kids are screaming for snacks.
As moms, we are told to hustle, to do it all, to keep everything together. The High Priestess flips that script. She tells you to slow down, trust your gut, and stop chasing perfection.
She also reminds you that slowing down can transform your home. Imagine a reading nook with a throw blanket, a glowing candle, and a steaming mug of tea. It resets your energy and creates an inviting corner that guests notice too.
Why Moms Need Her Now
Being a mom today is hard. The mental load alone is crushing, and the invisible labor never ends. That is why the High Priestess matters. She is the counterbalance to overstimulation and burnout.
She is about boundaries, calm, and trusting what you already know. Sometimes that means meditating. Sometimes it means accepting that mac and cheese is dinner. And sometimes it is as simple as fresh flowers on the counter because beauty makes you feel grounded, and yes, guests notice.
5 Ways to Channel the High Priestess
Here is how to bring a little High Priestess energy into everyday life.
- Morning Silence (Five Minutes, Tops)
Before the house wakes up, or while hiding in the bathroom, take five minutes. Hand on heart, deep breaths. Ask yourself: “What do I need today?” If you have a deck, glance at the High Priestess card. - Create a Soft Space
Think cozy chair, candle-lit nook, or even a bathroom shelf dressed with eucalyptus. Spaces like this center you and elevate your home’s vibe. - Intuitive To-Do Lists
Instead of tackling everything, ask what really matters today. Cross out the rest. No one cares if laundry waits another day. - Teach Emotional Calm
Feelings are valid, but you do not have to react immediately. Modeling calm helps kids and creates a home that feels lighter for everyone, guests included. - Nighttime Reflection
At the end of the day, ask yourself: “Where did I trust myself? Where did I ignore my gut?” Too tired? A glance at the moon or a few quiet breaths works just as well.
Busting the Woo-Woo Myth
You do not need to believe in tarot to benefit from the High Priestess. She is simply a reminder to pause. Even three minutes of tuning in can help. Over time, you will feel calmer, less scattered, and more intentional. And if it does not work, at least you created a cozy corner you actually enjoy.
Final Thoughts
Motherhood has a way of making us forget how intuitive and wise we are. The High Priestess reminds us that balance is not about doing more, it is about listening more.
Start small. One practice. One moment. One breath. Intuition is not a luxury in motherhood; it is a strength.
So, mama, embrace your inner High Priestess. Create a soft space, trust yourself, and find that quiet moment. You have got this, or at least you are doing your best. And that is enough. Guests might see your clean counters, but they will feel the calm you have created.